Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Prove Yourself !

We have to prove ourselves everyday with each passing moment. I remember the existentialistic philosophy here. Sartre wrote a book entitled, ‘Being and Nothing’. He was of the view that ‘man first is then defines himself’. Even in our day to day life we have to define our identity. Otherwise life won’t be so meaningful after all.

It is we who give meaning to our existence. Life isn’t just the exercise of breathing in or out. There’s much more to it. Life is what we make out of it. It is we ourselves who mould the clay of life, shaping it with our fingers and giving it the finishing touches as time goes by. But sometimes the tide of time blows a cover of dust over it. The secret is to reshape that dust to match the existing sculpture. Mix it in such a way that nobody know the duality of its existence.  Let it be just like a natural cover – a layer on top; a layer that covers the small holes left in the earlier mould.

So get going and don’t complain about the dust that others blow upon you, take it in your stride. They have just provided more material to you to shine and rise. According to a French Proverb, "It is only the tree loaded with fruits that people throw stones at." The difference will be in your approach towards them, whether you use them as stepping stones or the stumbling blocks.


2 comments:

Sanjita said...

Thats really true.. if one is caught in the futile saying of this world or may i say, useless people; then the going gets tough..the mind would be a slave to others.. We gotto prove to our own selves to lead a stress free, happier living...if we can mould our thought in a better fashion, the shape would be be LISSOME..

artmirror said...

Thank you for the pictorial post. It looks nicely. The dust that others blow upon us provides indeed lots of building material. Yet what for are these bricks? ... We may feel safe in high tower under the heavy walls, yet do we need such comfort? Do we need the masks to hide, or the hearty welcome from the passersby?
I totally agree with you that it's our approach that makes the difference, yet I the personal safety and the selfishness are one and the same in the essence. So, what do you promote in the concrete? Is it love to all or care just for self?