Thursday, December 24, 2009

The Mantra of Successful Relationships - Part II

TO BEGIN WITH: THIS POST IS SECOND IN THIS SERIES. IN CASE YOU HAVE MISSED THE FIRST ONE, HERE IT IS THE MANTRA OF SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS - PART I

It is not that we have to understand and give our inputs every time. But sometimes lending an ear is of utmost importance, especially when we need it the most. Life is full of all sorts of varied experiences…some of which just go by but there are other which continue to nag us. So in that situation it becomes imperative that we express our pent up emotions. Give your partner an assurance that he/she is being listened to. The silence of the listener would also communicate in that situation. Show that you care. Of course, the demonstration of emotions is not always required. Sometimes it is of utmost importance that we are there when our partner badly needs our support. By being there we can do all that matters the most. Too much display of emotions would be too ostentatious, but still all human beings crave for a feeling that they are being taken care of. This is because we all want a cozy place, where we can feel at home and just be ourselves.



Pic src: Listening

NEVER FORGET TO LEND AN EAR TO YOUR PARTNER…YOUR PRESENCE IN ITSELF IS A REASSURANCE!

P.S. The picture might seem funny but post is not!!!

3 comments:

BK Chowla said...

True,well said.

Being Pramoda... said...

happy christmas to you too and thank you for ur suggestion and for yur mail..:)

Enjoy your moments..the pic was soo touching..:)

Dimps said...

Hello Amritbir :)

Listening... helps a lot!!
And aggression reduces the moment a person becomes a nice listener... and understands the strength of the emotional bond!

Regards,
Dimple